被愛,是因為你充滿勇氣 | 2019屆尚德IBDP畢業典禮發言集

上海市民辦尚德實驗學校



班主任代表寄語

Homeroom Teacher Speech









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這三年里我們班主任們陪著這些孩子們經歷了他們成長階段中許多難忘的時刻。ITRAVEL活動中一起編排的優雅舞步,網上現金二八杠:在BOB不眠夜我們一起狂歡尖叫,每個圣誕節在教室里布置圣誕樹,掛起滿天星的燈,還有在迪士尼一起看著煙花在夜空中絢爛綻放,這些都會成為伴隨我們彼此一生的回憶。

當然,只有甘甜,沒有苦澀的回憶,不會深刻長久。

我記得AB班的孩子們面臨融中最后一年的個人展和全球電子統考,壓力大得讓人感到窒息。CD班的孩子們3年前剛加入融合課程,第一次翻開全英文的課本,第一次了解什么是托福雅思,你們的臉上寫滿了迷茫甚至是恐懼。

到了11和12年級,你們都真正體會到了IBDP的學術難度,我們經??吹僥忝切綽畚氖幣蛭狽λ悸范蠲疾徽?,為了考試前要記住許多的定義案例而挑燈夜戰,作為班主任,有時真的很焦急也很心疼,但面對那么多的專業領域,我們能做的只是 默默守在你們身邊,在你們累了,堅持不下去的時候,做你們可以信賴依靠,遮風避雨的港灣。

我擁抱過天賦秉異,學術表現一直非常優秀的孩子,也擁抱過哭成淚人,嘴里說著放棄,卻頑強地走完這一路的孩子。

今天你們就要離開母校了,我代表12年級的班主任們,給在座的畢業生們三個期待:

第一,不斷自我增值。你們在尚德的這些年所獲得的學術知識,在潛移默化中學會的為人處事之道,都已經成為了你們的個人價值。離開了尚德以后,你們仍然要堅持給自己的人生增加價值,利用好業余時間,多閱讀和學習。

第二,始終抱有希望。當你們出國之后,一定會經歷一段寂寞,孤獨甚至無助的時光,而這段時光,恰恰是沉淀自我的關鍵階段。所以,當你有一天身處異國他鄉,感到孤獨和失落,請記得,只有擁抱希望,才能迎來繁華。

第三,謙卑感恩之心。當你們的自身價值和能力到達一定高度之后,不要忘了你也曾遇到困難,得到過幫助。所以當你自己變得強大了以后,請你們去幫助許多正在無助中煎熬的人們。千萬不要做一只孤芳自賞的井底之蛙;成就別人,才是你個人價值最高的體現。

Class of 2019, I believe in a future, where the value of people’s work is no longer measured by the size of their paycheck, but by the amount of meaning they give, and the amount of happiness they spread.

And you, today’s graduates, are going to make this future happen.

Congratulations, I respect you, and I love you.






——12年級年級主任秦智杰

學生代表畢業演講

Student Speech


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Allow me to introduce three of my long-lasting companions, who had been with me for so many years, who I finally knew them now.

My first companion is Anxiety. Throughout IB journey, it happens frequently. Feeling anxious about a task is normal, but you need to be very conscious if you’re suffering from chronic anxiety. It decreases our performance and more importantly, it could be bad for your health. A common belief behind it could be that I must do well to win the approval of others or else I am no good. The fact is that even if you mess it up, it doesn’t mean the end of the world. But if you are still obsessed, do talk to someone who always support you, seeking for help. Remember that the result is always mingled with so many random factors, but what we learn throughout the process would never be gone.

After Anxiety comes Confusion. During the university application season, I was completely lost, what’s worse, many of my friends were so determined about their future major choice. But what about me? I’ve done so many amazing activities but I couldn’t even pick out one ‘valuable’ experience to make my personal statement more beautiful. All of a sudden I realized that my life in the past 17 years was like a train traveling on a prearranged track, a track built by teachers, parents, and counselors. I didn’t really think about where my true passion lay. I had to build the track myself. I was enlightened by a book and would like to share with you that finding passion is a process, not a result and it takes time. Truth be told, I still don’t know what major I would be doing, but I’m no longer confused. If you ever feel lost like me again, don't panic! It’s a good sign as it means you’re creating your own way, making your own decisions, and exploring your own future. 

The last one is Anger. I felt angry when I saw little cats and dogs were tortured or abandoned on the elevated road; I felt angry when I witnessed the survivors of sexual assault suffered from victim shaming; I felt angry when the women’s right of abortion was deprived by the ‘Heartbeat Bills’ in the state of Alabama. They seem far away from our lives, but no, everyone of us are involved. Anger is necessary because sooner or later in our heart what takes the place of anger is a sense of responsibility, a sense of mission. Feeling angry means we still care, and the fact that we care is the prerequisite of making change. No matter how subtle difference we can make, it all starts with action.

Confusion, anxiety, anger, without them, my growth would have been impossible. One day, if they come and knock on your doors, don’t be afraid and embrace them, they will become your life-long companions. Thank you and happy graduation.


——12C何子躍



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勇氣比完美更重要,因為擁有接受不完美的勇氣遠比一味追求完美令人贊嘆。在接觸IB課程之前,我對于完美的定義很狹隘,取得高分, 獲得稱贊可能就是完美。而進入DP之后,我發現沒有真正的十全十美,有勇氣接納自己的不完美就是完美。IB的學習極具挑戰性與不確定性,在藝術評論上傳前十天被告知因為格式問題需要重寫,在寫完EE之后被告知論題有問題要另起爐灶,這些事情一遍一遍刷新著我們對于挫折的接受程度。而支撐著我們一路走到現在的就是勇氣,相比不停地恐懼未知的答案,三年的知識積累與錘煉讓我們逐漸擁有了接受不確定性的底氣與勇氣。

勇氣比完美更重要, 因為勇氣是自我接納與自我成就,而完美則很大程度上只存在于別人的眼中。對于我而言,我高中畢業,有太多理想,我想成為名揚天下的詩人,想成為不給學生出難題的教育局局長,當然了,當尚德的校長是我從十年級就立下的目標。這些理想的確遙不可及,或者說年少輕狂,但是因為有勇氣,我愿意去嘗試,就算失敗至少不會后悔。對于我們所有人而言,我們都有太多的可能性,而勇氣就是實現這些可能性的前提,不用太在乎別人的眼光與評價,因為你才是你人生的書寫者,不用強顏歡笑,想哭的時候就哭出來吧,畢竟也沒有人會笑話你,當然也不能盲目自大,因為你要知道永遠會有人比你更厲害。腳踏實地,仰望星空是尚德IB帶給我的啟示。

最后,勇氣不是空穴來潮,我們的勇氣來自很多人,來自班主任們的鼓勵,伙伴的陪伴,至親的支持??純醋諛閔肀叩耐?,他們陪著你走在最美好的年紀,看看今天盛裝出席的老師們,他們是否和當年你認識的時候一個樣?在這里我也代表全體12年級畢業生對所有幫助過陪伴著我們成長的人道一聲感謝,因為你們我們成就了更好的自己。

2019屆畢業生終究各奔前程,但是感謝遇見,感謝陪伴,不用抵觸遺忘,因為它是為了更好的記住。不用害怕失去,因為它總會以另一種形式回來。不用害怕你不夠完美,因為年輕人,你會被愛,被接受,不是因為你完美,而是因為你,充滿勇氣!


——12A 黃雨瑤




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